Monday, May 23, 2011

“Love is still alive”




Love is the most beautiful presence we feel around… the most deepest belief we all have… and the most strongest desire we all wish to fulfill… but beyond this, it’s the most intricate & complex picture which often leaves us in the predicament of variant questions for which we keep asking ourselves but of no avail and no answers in the end. I may answer you today as I have answered myself.

We all are born out of love, so posses’ immense love inside and still keep looking for the same throughout life as if the thirst for love never ends.
Should I say that we are covetous? Or should I call us materialistic? No we are none of that; we just want to live happily, wish to have a beautiful life, want to create our own paradise, we are impatient creatures and can’t wait that long so wish to have our salvations here on earth only and love does all that. We all know.



We are showered with immense love till our little years of ages and we treasure all that love inside us and then, we wish to share that love in the outer world when we grow some more that makes us develop new relations around in this world and then it comes a moment when we again feel the need of the one to again fill the bucket of love inside us as at this time, we were about to finish with what we had. It’s a complex path of the simplest existence that is love.

We keep looking for that one and often misunderstand and make mistakes because of following some deeply settled norms and perceptions in love. When people say that love happens only once, I felt to ask them that didn’t they loved their mother, sister, your friends, your previous girlfriend and won’t you love your daughter, but I never asked, as I knew the answer. The only difference is, we love many but the one who would again fill that bucket of love so that we could again share the love around to make this life beautiful, is the only one.

At this stage of life, we all would have felt to have found that one more than twice and when we failed, we often say that love doesn’t exist in today’s world or at times we feel guilty of being involved in relationships more than once. But, love is never untrue, never tainted, it’s always the purest presence in between the two souls and each soul share this bond with many around but the filler of bucket is always the one. 

Yes, I love many of my friends but that doesn’t makes fall in many relationships, I am deeply attached to my best friend who is a guy but that doesn’t makes me call him the one, I deeply love my cousin sister but that doesn’t makes me become a lesbian. Those failed relationships were not untrue love, neither you did anything wrong, it was only your mistaken vision that made you fall.


You just need to learn to see clearly and explicitly.


“Life has emerged out of Love… will end finding Love”



 Loves & Cares
Neha Sen 







Wednesday, May 18, 2011

“Disguised Development”


In reference to Uttrakhand.. 


The whole world around is walking on the path of development as some wants to walk upon it and some are compelled as others are doing the same. Everyone have joined the marathon of development as there is been very effective promotion all around but only very few knows the real meaning of this product and rest are just following the trend.

Recently, I visited my native state Uttrakhand to have some peaceful days in the lap of nature but all in vain as my mind couldn’t stay calm and abandoned me in the lake of questions and predicament. I stayed in my maternal Uncle’s house situated in one of the quiet developed parts of the state known as “Town” there for being quiet ahead in development than the rest of the parts.

It’s true that the state is developing and people there have joined the walk but seeing my native place developing couldn’t please me, even after me myself being the believer of development. It’s not because they are adapting to any western culture that I had problem with neither they are betraying their own culture.

It’s just that they are approaching towards the right destiny but are not upon the right path in ignorance…!!

The educational platter in such developing states have grown enough heightened to compete well with the developed cities of the country which would be worth praising in your vision but I found it otherwise while peeping into it. The majority of students there secure above 80% and their parents are equally concerned towards their education but all they know is to win in the race of development and all they dream is to become a doctor or either engineer. No other dream they carry neither they are allowed to possess.

“They have taken education as a means of survival… instead of a path of learning…”

Besides this, people are adopting to western life style there but without a proper gear. They have modern houses now and live upon high standards but they ignore the requirement of proper sewage system associated with modern life style. In Uttrakhand, the state government has banned to use of plastics in a very modern manner due to which you won’t find poly bags in anyone’s hand as all the poly bags have slipped over road sides since then.

The painful situation is, in this race of decaying development, no one has time to pay even a little concern towards these measures.

“Fashion” is another subject in this process of development, as in such developing states people hastily adapt to whatever new they come across without evaluating it even once which often deserts them in absurd appearances.

Fashion is a major disaster in these states not because people are not intellectual there, it’s because they are blindly following the rest.

In the end, the most complex predicament is about the continuous desertion of their roots by the people of such states comprising Uttrakhand as I experienced it few days back. People in these states are moving away from farming as they believe it to be unworthy to stay involved in the same admist this industrializing world but in true, development never banished farming from its platter as farming has always been the roots and will always be core of development throughout the world. They are following the developed cities where people don’t pursue farming but they ignore to understand that people in these cities are reluctant to do so.

Development is about raising.. not about decaying…!!


Loves & Cares
Neha Sen

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Youth: The Power



The world is changing around us as it has always been changing, but this time, its not the “Time” who is the reason behind as this time, it’s the “Youth”, who has triumph over the time and is bringing the Change.

The era of black & white is a history, color has been a part from a very long and 3D is the new world. It’s not about replacing the old; it’s about making it better. There is always a possibility of something better than what we have in the present. It’s about bringing the betterment.

Everything has a validity period and an expiry date in this world and we have to accept it as being holding the expired one won’t benefit us but it can possibly harm us. Even the expired body of our close one’s need to be buried. In the similar way, time also has an expiry and we have to desert the expired time to hold the fresh one.

“Life happens in present… it never stays in withered parts...!!“

The time is expiring again, to be replaced by the novel, the youth. Youth has announced a revolution against the mighty time to replace it. The revolution has begun to bring the change.

The book writing upon the era of youth has begun and the win of Anna Hazare and the triumph over the world cup are the initial chapters. The Indian World Cup Team was leaded by the youth of our country and I know that I don’t require explaining their triumph upon the time.

Anna Hazare was strongly supported by the youth through variant ways and in more vivid language, the supporters of cause was comprised by youth at the major part and some school students as well. The voice of the youth was loud over the social networking sites and SMS throughout the cause, as it has been estimated by research which further sated that these segments played a very significant role in bringing all together.

I still remember the time when we were strictly prohibited from carrying phones and using social networking sites by our parents or elders as these were perceived to be evils of modern times while today I’ve found even the parents joining us over social networking sites and phones to have become the basic requisite. Today, we won’t ignore to thank these two for bringing us better life.

The youth won’t sit quiet and accept the withered parts of the existing time; he would stand himself to remove the taints of the world so that he could have a clean place for himself. He is not coward, he doesn’t fear the time as all he know is to win over the time.


The youth is unconfined.. he is the liberal soul.. his mind walks beyond the skies.. he carries untainted potency within.. which makes him win over the time.. !!